Most of us might not be familiar with the name J.K. Rowling, but at the mention of Harry porter, we all squeal on out seats. In 2008, she was invited to give a commencement speech to the graduating students of the institution and she delivered a breath taking speech, below is the excerpt of her speech..
President Faust, members of the Harvard Corporation and the Board of
Overseers, members of the faculty, proud parents, and, above all,
graduates, the first thing I would like to say is ‘thank you.’ Not only
has Harvard given me an extraordinary honor, but the weeks of fear and
nausea I have endured at the thought of giving this commencement address
have made me lose weight, a win-win situation! Now all I have to do is
take deep breaths, squint at the red banners and convince myself that I
am at the world’s largest Gryffindor reunion.
Delivering a commencement address is a great responsibility; or so I
thought until I cast my mind back to my own graduation. The commencement
speaker that day was the distinguished British philosopher Baroness
Mary Warnock. Reflecting on her speech has helped me enormously in
writing this one because it turns out that I can’t remember a single
word she said. This liberating discovery enables me to proceed without
any fear that I might inadvertently influence you to abandon promising
careers in business, the law or politics for the giddy delights of
becoming a gay wizard. You see? If all you remember in years to come is
the ‘gay wizard’ joke, I’ve come out ahead of Baroness Mary Warnock.
Achievable goals, the first step to self-improvement. Actually, I
have wracked my mind and heart for what I ought to say to you today. I
have asked myself what I wish I had known at my own graduation and what
important lessons I have learned in the 21 years that have expired
between that day and this.
I have come up with two answers. On this wonderful day when we are
gathered together to celebrate your academic success, I have decided to
talk to you about the benefits of failure. And as you stand on the
threshold of what is sometimes called real life, I want to extol the
crucial importance of imagination.
These may seem quixotic or paradoxical choices, but please bear with me.
Looking back at the 21-year-old that I was at graduation is a
slightly uncomfortable experience for the 42-year-old that she has
become. Half my lifetime ago, I was striking an uneasy balance between
the ambition I had for myself, and what those closest to me expected of
me. I was convinced that the only thing I wanted to do, ever, was write
novels. However, my parents, both of whom came from impoverished
backgrounds and neither of whom had been to college, took the view that
my overactive imagination was an amusing personal quirk that would never
pay a mortgage, or secure a pension. I know that the irony strikes with
the force of a cartoon anvil, now. So they hoped that I would take a
vocational degree; I wanted to study English Literature. A compromise
was reached that in retrospect satisfied nobody and I went up to study
Modern Languages. Hardly had my parents’ car rounded the corner at the
end of the road than I ditched German and scuttled off down the Classics
corridor.
I cannot remember telling my parents that I was studying Classics; they
might well have found out for the first time on graduation day. Of all
the subjects on this planet, I think they would have been hard put to
name one less useful than Greek mythology when it came to securing the
keys to an executive bathroom.
I would like to make it clear, in parenthesis, that I do not blame my
parents for their point of view. There is an expiry date on blaming
your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are
old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you. What is
more, I cannot criticize my parents for hoping that I would never
experience poverty. They had been poor themselves, and I have since been
poor and I quite agree with them that it is not an ennobling
experience. Poverty entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression;
it means a thousand petty humiliations and hardships. Climbing out of
poverty by your own efforts, that is something on which to pride
yourself, but poverty itself is romanticized only by fools.
What I feared most for myself at your age was not poverty, but
failure. At your age, in spite of a distinct lack of motivation at
university, where I had spent far too long in the coffee bar writing
stories and far too little time at lectures, I had a knack for passing
examinations, and that for years, had been the measure of success in my
life and that of my peers.
I am not dull enough to suppose that because you are young, gifted
and well-educated, you have never known hardship or heartbreak. Talent
and intelligence never yet inoculated anyone against the caprice of the
Fates, and I do not for a moment suppose that everyone here has enjoyed
an existence of unruffled privilege and contentment. However, the fact
that you are graduating from Harvard suggests that you are not very
well-acquainted with failure. You might be driven by a fear of failure
quite as much as a desire for success. Indeed, your conception of
failure might not be too far from the average person’s idea of success,
so high have you already flown.
Ultimately, we all have to decide for ourselves what constitutes
failure, but the world is quite eager to give you a set of criteria if
you let it. So I think it fair to say that by any conventional measure, a
mere seven years after my graduation day, I had failed on an epic
scale. An exceptionally short-lived marriage had imploded and I was
jobless, a lone parent, and as poor as it is possible to be in modern
Britain without being homeless. The fears that my parents had had for
me, and that I had had for myself, had both come to pass, and by every
usual standard I was the biggest failure I knew.
Now, I am not going to stand here and tell you that failure is fun.
That period of my life was a dark one, and I had no idea that there was
going to be what the press has since represented as a kind of fairy tale
resolution. I had no idea then how far the tunnel extended, and for a
long time, any light at the end of it was a hope rather than a reality.
So why do I talk about the benefits of failure? Simply because
failure meant a stripping away of the inessential. I stopped pretending
to myself that I was anything other than what I was, and began to direct
all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to me. Had I
really succeeded at anything else, I might never have found the
determination to succeed in the one arena I believed I truly belonged. I
was set free, because my greatest fear had been realized, and I was
still alive, and I still had a daughter whom I adored, and I had an old
typewriter and a big idea. And so rock bottom became the solid
foundation on which I rebuilt my life.
You might never fail on the scale I did, but some failure in life is
inevitable. It is impossible to live without failing at something,
unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at
all, in which case, you fail by default. Failure gave me an inner
security that I had never attained by passing examinations. Failure
taught me things about myself that I could have learned no other way. I
discovered that I had a strong will, and more discipline than I had
suspected; I also found out that I had friends whose value was truly
above the price of rubies.
The knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks
means that you are, ever after, secure in your ability to survive. You
will never truly know yourself, or the strength of your relationships,
until both have been tested by adversity. Such knowledge is a true gift;
for all that it is painfully won, and it has been worth more than any
qualification I ever earned.
So given a time turner, I would tell my 21-year-old self that
personal happiness lies in knowing that life is not a check-list of
acquisition or achievement. Your qualifications, your CV, are not your
life, though you will meet many people of my age and older who confuse
the two. Life is difficult, and complicated, and beyond anyone’s total
control and the humility to know that will enable you to survive its
vicissitudes.
Now you might think that I chose my second theme, the importance of
imagination, because of the part it played in rebuilding my life, but
that is not wholly so. Though I personally will defend the value of
bedtime stories to my last gasp, I have learned to value imagination in a
much broader sense. Imagination is not only the uniquely human capacity
to envision that which is not, and therefore the fount of all invention
and innovation. In its arguably most transformative and revelatory
capacity, it is the power that enables us to empathize with humans whose
experiences we have never shared.
One of the greatest formative experiences of my life preceded Harry
Potter, though it informed much of what I subsequently wrote in those
books. This revelation came in the form of one of my earliest day jobs.
Though I was sloping off to write stories during my lunch hours, I paid
the rent in my early 20s by working at the African research department
at Amnesty International’s headquarters in London.
There in my little office I read hastily scribbled letters smuggled
out of totalitarian regimes by men and women who were risking
imprisonment to inform the outside world of what was happening to them. I
saw photographs of those who had disappeared without trace, sent to
Amnesty by their desperate families and friends. I read the testimony of
torture victims and saw pictures of their injuries. I opened
handwritten, eye-witness accounts of summary trials and executions, of
kidnappings and rapes.
Many of my co-workers were ex-political prisoners, people who had been
displaced from their homes, or fled into exile because they had the
temerity to speak against their governments. Visitors to our offices
included those who had come to give information, or to try and find out
what had happened to those they had left behind.
I shall never forget the African torture victim, a young man no older
than I was at the time, who had become mentally ill after all he had
endured in his homeland. He trembled uncontrollably as he spoke into a
video camera about the brutality inflicted upon him. He was a foot
taller than I was, and seemed as fragile as a child. I was given the job
of escorting him back to the Underground Station afterwards and this
man whose life had been shattered by cruelty took my hand with exquisite
courtesy, and wished me future happiness. And as long as I live I shall
remember walking along an empty corridor and suddenly hearing, from
behind a closed door, a scream of pain and horror such as I have never
heard since. The door opened, and the researcher poked out her head and
told me to run and make a hot drink for the young man sitting with her.
She had just had to give him the news that in retaliation for his own
outspokenness against his country’s regime, his mother had been seized
and executed.
Every day of my working week in my early 20s I was reminded how
incredibly fortunate I was to live in a country with a democratically
elected government, where legal representation and a public trial were
the rights of everyone. Every day, I saw more evidence about the evils
humankind will inflict on their fellow humans to gain or maintain power.
I began to have nightmares, literal nightmares, about some of the
things I saw, heard, and read. And yet I also learned more about human
goodness at Amnesty International than I had ever known before.
Amnesty mobilizes thousands of people who have never been tortured or
imprisoned for their beliefs to act on behalf of those who have. The
power of human empathy, leading to collective action, saves lives, and
frees prisoners. Ordinary people, whose personal well-being and security
are assured, join together in huge numbers to save people they do not
know and will never meet. My small participation in that process was one
of the most humbling and inspiring experiences of my life. Unlike any
other creature on this planet, human beings can learn and understand,
without having experienced. They can think themselves into other
people’s places.
Of course, this is a power like my brand of fictional magic that is
morally neutral. One might use such an ability to manipulate, or
control, just as much as to understand or sympathize. And many prefer
not to exercise their imaginations at all. They choose to remain
comfortably within the bounds of their own experience, never troubling
to wonder how it would feel to have been born other than they are. They
can refuse to hear screams or to peer inside cages; they can close their
minds and hearts to any suffering that does not touch them personally;
they can refuse to know.
I might be tempted to envy people who can live that way, except that I
do not think they have any fewer nightmares than I do. Choosing to live
in narrow spaces leads to a form of mental agoraphobia, and that brings
its own terrors. I think the willfully unimaginative see more monsters.
They are often more afraid. What is more, those who choose not to
empathize enable real monsters. For without ever committing an act of
outright evil ourselves, we collude with it, through our own apathy.
One of the many things I learned at the end of that Classics corridor
down which I ventured at the age of 18, in search of something I could
not then define was this, written by the Greek author Plutarch, “What we
achieve inwardly will change outer reality.” That is an astonishing
statement and yet proven a thousand times every day of our lives. It
expresses, in part, our inescapable connection with the outside world,
the fact that we touch other people’s lives simply by existing.
But how much more are you, Harvard graduates of 2008, likely to touch
other people’s lives? Your intelligence, your capacity for hard work,
the education you have earned and received, give you unique status, and
unique responsibilities. Even your nationality sets you apart. The great
majority of you belong to the world’s only remaining superpower. The
way you vote, the way you live, the way you protest, the pressure you
bring to bear on your government, has an impact way beyond your borders.
That is your privilege and your burden.
If you choose to use your status and influence to raise your voice on
behalf of those who have no voice; if you choose to identify not only
with the powerful, but with the powerless; if you retain the ability to
imagine yourself into the lives of those who do not have your
advantages, then it will not only be your proud families who celebrate
your existence, but thousands and millions of people whose reality you
have helped change. We do not need magic to transform our world; we
carry all the power we need inside ourselves already. We have the power
to imagine better.
I am nearly finished. I have one last hope for you, which is
something that I already had at 21. The friends with whom I sat on
graduation day have been my friends for life. They are my children’s
godparents, the people to whom I’ve been able to turn in times of real
trouble, people who have been kind enough not to sue me when I took
their names for death eaters. At our graduation we were bound by
enormous affection, by our shared experience of a time that could never
come again, and of course, by the knowledge that we held certain
photographic evidence that would be exceptionally valuable if any of us
ran for Prime Minister.
So today, I wish you nothing better than similar friendships. And
tomorrow, I hope that even if you remember not a single word of mine,
you remember those of Seneca, another of those old Romans I met when I
fled down the Classics corridor, in retreat from career ladders, in
search of ancient wisdom, “As is a tale, so is life. Not how long it is,
but how good it is, is what matters.
I wish you all very good lives. Thank you very much.
#daringyoutoachievemore
Thank you. Thank you very much. I am obviously the most unorganized.
Everyone else has nice boxes to bring their script up in; I just like
kind of got it all messed up here put inside of a magazine so, in fact, I
don’t even have it in the right order, let me get it in the right order
here. So if it starts like flying around the stage just, you know, run
around and grab it for me and bring it back up here for me. I’ll keep
going as I can.
